People used to feel lonely because they built walls instead of bridges. Thanks to the vast, anonymous reach of the internet, people are now building virtual bridges in online relationships and finding this can’t cure their lonely feelings. Discover how to fulfill a purpose and cure for loneliness and build a real bridge in your virtual relationships.
What is a purpose of loneliness?
Self discovery. Painful, empty feelings are a wake up call, urging us to find a path out of the pain. You can escape or dull it through drugs, serial dating, over-eating, over exercising, over-indulging in any activity without seeking positive personal growth.
The best pain reliever is to learn the lessons of loneliness in a time of solitude, which is loneliness with a purpose. During a painful break up or bout of lost love, you may feel that you have a mountain of solitude to tackle.
Instead of drifting into despair or depression over this overwhelming task, you can choose to use your alone time to find or refresh your life purpose and make progress on a path of personal growth.
Your new outlook and new actions are a purpose of loneliness and also its cure.
How do you cure loneliness?
By reviving your dreams and taking action on them everyday
By learning the love lesson from lost love and letting go of sad stories
By giving thanks for all the faces of love in your life
By seeing the wonders of you and strengthening your strengths, so your flaws lose power and importance
By recharging your health, which can take a beating during lonely times
By falling in love again, with yourself first, since healthy self love is a love magnet
By reaching out to build real bridges with people, cultivating local connections and virtual relationships
By learning how to make real connections your virtual relationships
How do you make a real connection in your virtual relationships?
You may feel encouraged, supported, safe and inspired by people you are meeting on internet dating sites via email, telephone or video chats.
You may be sharing intimate details about your life dreams and desires, challenges and accomplishments.
You may be feeling bonds of true friendship and affection in your virtual relationship.
When you get to know someone during video chats, you can see their face light up onscreen, because they are happy to talk with you. And you get a sense of their character, their qualities, your sparks of chemistry in video conversations.
Your positive, informative, entertaining e-connections and video chats with potential love matches serve a vital purpose:
They are not a substitute for live interactions. They are a step bridge that helps you take the next step in your virtual relationship and make a real connection with your virtual date.
If you want to meet your great love online, you will want to meet face-to-face as soon as possible in your virtual relationship.
You can plan to meet safely in a public place or during group outings, special events or travel adventures offered in the new generation of online dating sites. The sooner you meet in person, the sooner you know for sure if you have real potential to build a real bridge together as a loving couple.